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Crowdsourcing Child Care for Three Children in Hoboken

Kathy Zucker got expert advice on the knotty issue of paid care for three kids.

 

Over the last four years, I have cobbled together child care from daycare, babysitters and family members. I arrange for one full day each week to attend business meetings and focus on intense work projects, and then grab two-hour stretches during the rest of the week. Most of my work gets done in the middle of the night.

My marketing consulting business has grown up with my children; as the kids get older and more manageable, my work demands increase proportionately (basically, I never have any free time). Having a third child will reset the clock to zero; if I want to continue to work at my current level, I have to make different child care plans from the tried and true ones I used with my older two.

Or do I?

I am a huge proponent of crowdsourcing. The New York Times recently conducted an experiment challenging its readers to solve a medical conundrum. Instead of one person beating his head against the wall trying to unravel a complicated issue, "a single physician dealing with a chal­lenging case would have, poten­tially, access to the expertise of mil­lions of people, perhaps a few who have genuine insight and have seen a rare sit­u­ation before." (http://www.medicallessons.net/2011/03/crowd-sourcing-a-medical-puzzle/)

Who doesn't like speedy, accurate answers?

I brought my situation to Claire Jones of The Hoboken Nanny Company. With a 17-year background in nanny screening and professional British nanny training, I figured Jones would be the ideal person to help me crowdsource a solution.

Right off the bat, Jones suggested something that never occurred to me. After I detailed my family's needs and concerns, she recommended hiring temporary nannies. There are so many nannies out of work right now that many of them would consider a short-term part-time assignment to bridge the gap between full-time jobs. Jones said, "If you have someone work from 10 p.m. until 7 a.m., that is a standard nine-hour shift." I can expect to pay a small premium over the standard rate of $15/hour, but as long as the job is only for one or two months while the nanny is between long-term families, it should be fairly easy to find someone. Or several someones.

The goal would be to get my family over the newborn hump and then resume my usual affordable pattern of part-time daycare, college-educated part-time baby sitters, and help from my mom. The additional benefit of using temporary nannies is I avoid nanny taxes.

Unfortunately, even if I avoid nanny taxes, I can't dodge the liability risk. Jones knows of many cases where the nanny can and does sue the family when she was injured in their home.

However, Jones tells me that most nannies won't be willing to interview with me because they don't want to sign up for a family with three children, so maybe I don't have to worry about it.

To read more about what makes Kathy Zucker tick, check out her blog at http://momcondoliving.com/ and follow her at http://twitter.com/kathyzucker

About this column: Every week Kathy Zucker, mother of two toddlers, writes about issues and challenges that come with raising children in an urban setting. Related Topics: Child Care, Parenting, and Planning

Kathy Zucker

8:29 am on Friday, June 3, 2011

Want to meet the experts I interviewed for this article & ask for their advice? Claire Jones (Hoboken Nanny Company) & Danielle Seubert (Learning Fun Babysitting) will be exhibiting on Saturday, 6/11 at the Metro Mom Expo (301 Garden St in Hoboken). Details at http://metromomexpo.com/

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Elizabeth

3:49 pm on Thursday, June 30, 2011

Great article. I feel like most everyone I know right now is struggling with child care solutions, especially with the changes in schedules due to the summer. I have been one of the oh so fortunate ones to be paying the nanny tax for a few years now. If you find a nanny you really like I would highly suggest keeping her on, as they are hard to come by. I set up a Dependent Care Account through my employer so I get a tax break, and use GTM for all of my household payroll and Insurance needs. I certainly do not want to not be covered if an employee gets hurt at my house, too much to lose. Best of luck in your search!

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Kathy Zucker

7:16 pm on Thursday, June 30, 2011

The summer is definitely tough. Great tip about GTM Payroll Services (http://www.gtm.com/), thanks for the info! I've been covering the summer with college students who interning and babysitting for me, plus the kids are in part-time camp that is really helping them with their letters & numbers so they can be ready for preschool in the fall. I am wondering if this arrangement would work with an infant too; am definitely going to give it a try!

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Kathy Zucker

10:31 pm on Thursday, June 30, 2011

Looking for a Hoboken preschool or daycare? A reader sent me a comprehensive analysis plus updates about her experience finding a spot for her 3 year old, more at https://bitly.com/hobpreschool

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